How to reach your goals and believe in yourself

My besties one word to describe me as is resilient. No matter what I don’t quit or give up. Once my heart and mind is set on something I will give it my best shot. Whether it’s a boy, my career, a hobby or anything else. The subject doesn’t matter.

In this blog post, I’m going to give you some inspiration and my top tips on how to reach your goals! Keep reading!

Everybody has a dream, even the big scary men in Tangled, if you haven’t seen that film then I am very disappointed. I have a dream, you have a dream, we all have a big dream or goal that we would love to achieve.

Check out the I’ve got a dream video from Tangled HERE.

Goals can be anything from ticking everything of your daily to-do list to one day having a happy stable relationship or owning a pet. Goals are almost like a small step towards dreams.

Dreams, on the other hand, are much bigger and harder to achieve at times. They can be mountains that take days, months or years to reach.

I always loved the quote “Dreams don’t work unless you do” and it’s so true. If you want to achieve your dreams then you need to show the universe that you’re worthy and prepared to work for it. Nothing in life is easy.

No one else can achieve your dreams or help you reach them. In life, if you want something then you need to go out and get it.

When I finished university I emailed my dream company to work for asking for a job. It was successful although later on it sadly fell through due to my dream company being unbelievably unreliable. Everything happens for a reason though and I DID NOT give up. Something better came along!

As I said, you are in charge of your own life and dreams so don’t be afraid to go out and get it. “If you don’t ask, you don’t get” is a quote that my Mum practically grew me up on. It doesn’t mean be cheeky and ask for everything and anything but it means, doesn’t be scared to ask for your dreams and opportunities.

Some top tips:

  • Make a to do list of your goals. Steps that will help you achieve your dreams.
  • Don’t be afraid to ask for opportunities.
  • Don’t ever stop or give up.
  • Start early on. It’s never to early to aim for your dreams. What’s the harm in achieving them early? Good on you if you do!
  • Think with your mind not your heart. Sometimes your heart can be naive but your mind is always smart and practical.
  • Don’t let anyone get in the way of your dreams EVER.
  • Believe in yourself and your dream. Visualise it and how you’ll achieve it.
  • Work work work your ass off. Do your best constantly!

Another good tip is to surround yourself with people who support you, empower and motivate you. If your friends don’t support you or lift you up then why are they your friends? You don’t need that negativity!

Who’s your idol and how did she/he achieve their dreams? Take tips! Honestly, one of my idols is Rapunzel and I don’t even care. She’s so brave, strong, independent and fierce. She knows what her dreams are and she doesn’t let anyone get in the way. Even though her best friend is a fictional chameleon, he supports her dreams and ambitions. I need a Pascal!

I hope this blog post helped some of you and inspired you. I just wanted to share my top tips on how I am keeping up my motivation and reaching for my dreams. Don’t give up EVER!

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